05/08/2010 10:42am
“My Brother and Chi”
hey all…
i just wanted to reach out and request our one love family pray for a fellow deftones fan and chi supporter named ben olsem. i got an email from his brother morgan… here it is:
Hello, my name is Morgan Olsem and I have one of the biggest Deftones supporters in my brother, Ben Olsem. On April 30th,2010, he was hit head on by another driver on the way to the Deftones show in Mission, Texas. He’s been comatose in a San Antonio ICU since that Friday. I can’t even begin to list his life-threatening problems. Apparently the other driver at fault was a 17 year old high on power duster. I am writing you to let you know that Chi was always in my brother’s prayers since his ’08 accident. Now I pray for Chi as well as my brother for any kind of recovery possible. Even though the best case for my little brother will be a type of vegetative state, i will always play Deftones at his bedside in hopes that he’ll feel like he made the concert. He would like that. I hope the best for Chi and family, take care.
let’s do what we can to send out healing, positive thoughts, prayer and love to ben and his family…
one love for chi.. and ben,
gina






hay we are behind you and chi and your brother one love family
Praying for you, Ben. Sending you love and healing energy – Never give up hope as miracles do happen.
Words don’t seem to grasp the enormity of your family’s life changing trauma – but know that we are here for you and you are in a strong and loving family’s embrace – The One love family. Wish Ben and your family all the best. One love.
Anyone who is a fan of the Deftones and of Chi is certainly a part of my extended family. We as a whole need to unite under the name of love for Chi and our world wide family….. Love to my brothers Chi and Ben
i could not agree more and i’m ppsitive chi would say the same.
thanks for your support!
one love for chi,
gina
I know the feeling of a loved one being taken from me. He was my cousin, my best friend. It was such a huge loss for me and my family. It happened in 07 and we have not been the same since… I hope for the best for your brother and also Chi as well… ONE LOVE
One love for Chi and Ben. The great people of this beautiful, compassionate ‘one love community’ are gonna pray hard for your brother Ben.
- John
just wanted to extend a huge thank you to the one love family for all of your support and prayers for my brother-in-law Ben. i know for a fact if Ben could be awake to see all the love and even just to know how much closer he has gotten to his favorite band he would cry with excitement.
you have all been a great healing tool for the family and i am sure for Ben as well.
one love. and as always chi and Ben remain in my prayers.
hi ashlee,
you are so welcome!
i can’t begin to express how sorry i am that this happened to ben.
you will find that the “one love for chi community” is really.. like a family and full of love and support. we welcome you …make yourself at home.
chi’s mom and i meet up often in the one love for chi chat room: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/one-love-for-chi-chat/ … maybe you can catch us there some time.
most of all.. please keep the faith and do everything you can to keep your family’s faith lifted. miracles happen and you must never give up hope.
i sent some info to morgan to give to his mom regarding all the state assistance available for TBI in our great state of texas. this is all info i have from research i did back when there was a possibility chi would come to texas. if ya’ll have any questions just let me know.. i have done a TON of research!
we will keep ben in prayer along with chi.
one love for chi, (and ben)
gina
Brother Chi, our prayers are with you. Me and my wife really want you to get well. We never had deftones in Ecuador(my country)so I hope someday that dream come true, and better if that happends with you on stage. I really admire your courage and spirit. So go on brother with your head up high!!!!!!!!!!!
God bless you!!!
hey morgan, it’s mae. my heart goes out to you, your family, and especially ben. all i can say is, believe in miracles and the power of the human spirit. it can endure and fight thru so much more than i thought possible. i cried when i read your story because it obviously hits so close to home. if you want to get ahold of me, im a XXX@XXX.com (mae – i will give them your email privately – gina) love and respect. tell ben he is very much in my thoughts and prayers.
Morgan, thank you for allowing us to pray for Ben and for your family. We know the heartbreak and shock that you are in now. Let me share the one thread that has run through every story of overcoming the odds that we have seen in the past year and a half since Chi’s accident. The victims that came back all had family that wouldn’t give up on them. They all shared a strong faith in God. They were fighters. Our OneLove family is strongly bonded and full of prayer warriors. Will you please update us and let us know how Ben is? Chi had so many complications and still here he is with us and still recovering. Will you or Ashlee please send Mae and I contact information at her Email address? Gina also has my Email. (Gina, pls forward it to Morgan for me and thank you love)Our prayers will be with your family and with Ben. Please let us know if there is anything that we can do to help you. May our Father send his healing angels to surround Ben and protect him. We pray for his strength and recovery in the name of our Savior, Jesus Christ. Blessings to you all. OneLove, Jeanne
My husband, Cody, has been best friends with Ben for over 16 years and Ben and I have become close over the last 3 years. We can’t tell you how much we appreciate all the love and well wishes being sent Bens way. Thank you!
Chi and Ben are fighters and will come out on top!
One love for Chi & Ben…forever.
mic.. it’s so important to hold strong and keep the faith.
we will hold him in our thoughts and prayers. never, ever give up.
one love for chi,
gina
hey momma.. i have their contact info already.. i will send it to you.
love,
gina
must read: http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/do-it-for-chi-do-it-for-ben-do-it-for-yourselves-and-for-your-loved-ones-buckle-up/
one love for chi,
gina
http://oneloveforchi.com/index.php/paid-respects/
one love for chi,
gina